When you are so in touch with your past, and so aware of the negative doings that happened in your life, you’ll only live up to that because the mindset that you are creating for yourself had turned negative. You should shift your mind into a postage state in order to avoid the negative thoughts that are repetitive.
People who constantly avoid challenges are labeled as being a person that constantly has “pessimistic thoughts” due to them not putting themselves out there because of the fear of being a failure. People who don’t challenge themselves won’t ever get out that barrier of trying to constantly protect themselves because their thought process is all negative.
Acknowledging your kids during their childhood creates a major difference on the way they perform when they’re older. (Positive impact)