Good Grief

We find ourselves becoming panicky because we can think of nothing but the loss. We try so hard to get our minds off the subject, and perhaps for a moment or two we can be distracted, but soon we are right back again where we started. Naturally, this hinders our effectiveness in anything we are trying to do. We find that we are not producing the work of which we are capable. We start worrying about our mental health

For all of us the biggest hurdle is “accepting it emotionally.” We just do not want to believe it, and so unconsciously we set as many barriers in the way as possible, making complete acceptance a very slow process.