A Joosr Guide to… The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Just as it is difficult to communicate with someone who speaks a different language, it is difficult to communicate love to someone who doesn’t express it the same way you do.

The key, however, is to learn to set aside time for the important people in our lives, and particularly our partner.

You have the ability to plan your life to fit the important things in; make sure this includes time with your loved one.

, remember that it is important to your partner. Imagine that you’re making a daily deposit into their love bank.

Start expressing your love physically, in whatever ways you can.

Ask your partner what would make them feel loved, and then be sure to honor it.

So ensure that you talk to your partner about what they need physically to feel loved.

You may have heard over the years that quality is more important than quantity when it comes to spending time with someone.

You may have heard over the years that quality is more important than quantity when it comes to spending time with someone. This idea has quickly spread to all of our relationships to the point that these days our workmates and employer get more of our time than our spouse, children, parents, and friends. And, not only do we spend less time with these important people, we tend to be extremely distracted even when we are with them. Granted, work is important, and we need to devote our time and attention to it. The key, however, is to learn to set aside time for the important people in our lives, and particularly our partner

Ask yourself if, deep down, you still want to love your partner. Do you want the relationship to be loving and romantic as it once was? If so, are you willing to put forth the effort needed to accomplish that?