She was a bit obsessed with the idea, and I never understood why, and to this day I still don’t understand it at all. It was something so simple, yet hard to swallow, and I always thought it was somewhat of a taboo to even say. I mean, ideally no one wants to be forgotten, everyone wants to be remembered one way or another, and no one ever wants to slowly dissolve into the nothingness of another person’s mind. So to constantly mention it was something out of the ordinary.