Elizabeth J.Sabet

This action strengthens the negative. When we project mixed signals we get mixed results and do not usually get our needs fully met. The negative ego then uses the mixed results to justify being resentful, angry, or offended; even worse, it justifies the suffering caused by not getting its needs met, creating resentments that we can harbor for years, even lifetimes.

It’s plain and simple: either you are committed, or you are holding reservations. It is so important to be radically honest and to admit all your reservations to yourself and others who are invested in your endeavor. By allowing your reservations or concerns to be voiced, you will find hidden jewels of information.

Commitment means you are willing to do what it takes to reach your goal, to be the person you want to be, to live the life you say you want. Y