Life can be seen as a series of experiments where you try something, review it, learn from it, and then try something slightly different. The more experiments you make, the more you can start to see the gap between reality and what you tell yourself. You can start with low-risk experiments just to find out how it feels to do something different. For example, if you believe yourself to be shy, initiate a conversation with a colleague you know by sight but haven’t spoken to. Use your discretion – I wouldn’t try this in a situation where my intentions could be misinterpreted. The conversation’s outcome isn’t important; you are interested in how it feels and what resources it will need from you to do it differently