Atomic Habits: Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results

The goal is not to read a book, the goal is to become a reader.

The goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner.

the psychologist Carl Jung said, “Until you

make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will

call it fate.”

All big things come from small beginnings

the quality of our lives often depends on the quality of our habits. W

It is a special feeling to know that your parents are your greatest fans.

As Aristotle noted, “Youth is easily deceived because it is quick to hope.” Perhaps this can be revised to “Youth is easily deceived because it only hopes.” There is no experience to root the expectation in. In the beginning, hope is all you have.

Mastery requires patience

The idea that a little bit of discipline would solve all our problems is deeply embedded in our culture.

Recent research, however, shows something different. When scientists analyze people who appear to have tremendous self-control, it turns out those individuals aren’t all that different from those who are struggling. Instead, “disciplined” people are better at structuring their lives in a way that does not require heroic willpower and self-control.

Our behavior is not defined by the objects in the environment but by our relationship to them. In fact, this is a useful way to think about the influence of the environment on your behavior. Stop thinking about your environment as filled with objects. Start thinking about it as filled with relationships. Think in terms of how you interact with the spaces around you.

There are three layers of behavior change: a change in your outcomes, a change in your processes, or a change in your identity.