How we think we grow in relationships is not always how we do grow. We grow in Grace and Truth Relationships. Grace and Truth relationships are authentic and life changing. We often perform for others, isolate ourselves, or just try not to care. It is only as we experience grace and truth from both God and Others that we grow as a person. Sometimes we think, «Heck no, I don't need you, I've got God. We need to be connected both to God and Others. A relational Grid is introduced that helps people understand where they are in relationships and what they need to do to move to authentic ones.