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Fumitake Koga,Ichiro Kishimi

The Courage to be Happy: True contentment is within your power—the new Japanese phenomenon from the authors of the global bestseller, The Courage to be Disliked

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  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    PHILOSOPHER: Love is all. The person who lives wanting an easy life or looking for the easy way may find fleeting pleasures, but they will not be able to grasp real happiness. It is only by loving another person that we are liberated from self-centredness. It is only by loving another person that we can achieve self-reliance. And it is only by loving another person that we arrive at community feeling.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    PHILOSOPHER: That the world is simple, and life is too. But also, that ‘Keeping it simple is difficult.’
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    Self-reliance is ‘breaking away from self-centredness’.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    friendship is a relationship of ‘confidence’.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    Raising one’s voice in anger in such a way is also an expression of feelings of inferiority. When one’s feelings of inferiority are aroused, one tries to resolve them by using the emotion of anger.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    Self-reliance is one’s own determining of one’s worth
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    Furthermore, rebuking and praising, or, in other words, reward and punishment, stand in the way of the child’s self-reliance. Because reward and punishment is a method of trying to keep the child under one’s control, and the adult who relies on this conduct is, somewhere deep inside, afraid of the child’s self-reliance.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    Adler denies even the need for approval. He says that we should not seek approval from others, but instead switch to our own approval of ourselves.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    YOUTH: And again, one must not praise, either. Praising gives rise to the principle of competition within the community and implants in the child a lifestyle, or worldview, of ‘other people are my enemies’.
  • reiyah2309цитирует4 года назад
    PHILOSOPHER: If you feel insulted by these words, you are probably still trying to be a ‘special me’. Consequently, you seek approval from others. Consequently, you seek to gain admiration and draw attention and continue to live within the framework of problem behaviour.
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