Experience is an inchoate yet original subjective substance which is then shaped and named, and in effect given form, by pre-existing social and collective categories – words and expressions (sayings!) that seem to organize it, named emotions which appear to identify it, articulations familiar to others (familial, group, ethnic, even universal–philosophical) and which now allow me to see what has happened to me in relatively accessible signifiers, however much I want to give them a more unique and distinctive twist and slant, a personal mark, a kind of singularity I can own or defend as belonging (in public) to a privacy and a self.