One: You and your preschool friend got into a fight over a toy. You went home and complained about the incident to your parents. They were watching TV so they responded slightly irritated, saying something in a hurry about the value of sharing and that you were an envious little soul and that next time you should share the toy. You went to bed feeling unheard, scolded, and ashamed. You felt unprotected by your parents and utterly alone. Next time you had a conflict with other kids you didn’t share it with your parents, and so the feeling of being alone and having no one to count on just