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Lindsay C. Gibson

  • Александр Черепановцитирует6 месяцев назад
    Role reversal is a hallmark of emotionally immature parenting. In this case, the parent relates to the child as if the child were the parent, expecting attentiveness and comfort from the child. These parents may reverse roles and expect their child to be their confidant, even for adult matters. Parents who discuss their marriage problems with their children are an example of this kind of reversal. Other times parents might expect their children to praise them and be happy for them, just as a child might expect from a parent.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    Emotional intimacy involves knowing that you have someone you can tell anything to, someone to go to with all your feelings, about anything and everything. You feel completely safe opening up to the other person, whether in the form of words, through an exchange of looks, or by just being together quietly in a state of connection. Emotional intimacy is profoundly fulfilling, creating a sense of being seen for who you really are. It can only exist when the other person seeks to know you, not judge you.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    They often settle for emotional loneliness in their relationships because it feels normal to them, like their early home life.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    People who lacked emotional engagement in childhood, men and women alike, often can’t believe that someone would want to have a relationship with them just because of who they are. They believe that if they want closeness, they must play a role that always puts the other person first.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    What Jake didn’t realize is that hate is a normal and involuntary reaction when somebody tries to control you for no good reason. It signals that the person is extinguishing your emotional life force by getting his or her needs met at your expense.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    They live in a perpetual state of insecurity, fearing that they’ll be exposed as bad, inadequate, or unlovable. They keep their defenses high so other people can’t get close enough to threaten their shaky sense of self-worth.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    they caused a problem, they dismiss it by saying they didn’t intend to hurt you. After all, you can’t blame them for something they didn’t mean to do, right? In this way, their egocentric focus remains on their intention, not the impact on you.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    Impaired empathy is a central characteristic of emotionally immature people, as is avoidance of emotional sharing and intimacy.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    f you don’t have a basic sense of who you are as a person, you can’t learn how to emotionally engage with other people at a deep level.
  • Sara Mirцитируетв прошлом году
    It may be that many emotionally immature people weren’t allowed to explore and express their feelings and thoughts enough to develop a strong sense of self and a mature, individual identity. This made it hard for them to know themselves, limiting their ability to engage in emotional intimacy. I
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