Marc Reklau

When you blame others for things that happen in your life, you give them the power over your life.

Don’t criticize others

Don’t listen to your inner critic

My father did with his life what he wanted; I will do with my life what I want!” I picked these words up two years later after burying my father and decided to live by them ever since.

sk themselves what they really want in life, write down their goals and start working to

towards them, they could actually make those miracles happen

The good thing is that you can train your mind to give you only the things you want, and not the things that you don’t want! And it gets even better: you can learn how to deal with things that you can’t control in a more efficient and less painful manner.

Another ingredient is Approval. No matter how many faults somebody has, you can always find something to approve of. Let people know it because seeing these things and mentioning them will make them grow. Remember our hunger for acknowledgment? If you start approving of character traits in people, you will satisfy this hunger, and you will probably make these people work on other character traits and skills to gain more approval. Praise people and watch them grow.

doing it? And even more important... how can YOU develop these abilities.
One of the most important ingredients is Acceptance. You must accept people as they are

3. Give them a choice between two yeses