Eva Spencer

To obtain what they desire, narcissistic abusers take pleasure in creating dread and anxiety in others.

While there are many ways in which a narcissist might use their falsehoods and projections, the ultimate goal is always to turn others against the victim in the hopes that others will not try to figure out the truth for themselves.

The narcissist may simply leave out what happened before the victim stood up for themselves to frame the situation as the victim being mean to them, even though the victim’s defensiveness was a normal reaction to the narcissist’s toxic behavior.