Gary Chapman

I was famished, so I readily assented

e was as predictable as a clock, and no one could break into his routine.

is always freely given.

“Little things” really do mean a lot.

Meeting my wife’s need for love is a choice I make each day.

I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. . . . Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even “sinners” love those who love them.4

We must be willing to learn our spouse’s primary love language if we are to be effective communicators of love

People speak different love languages

Being sincere is not enough. We must be willing to learn our spouse’s primary love language if we are to be effective communicators of love

Love need not evaporate after the wedding, but in order to keep it alive most of us will have to put forth the effort to learn a secondary love language