Steve Harvey

The most important thing you should know about men in their thirties is that you should expect commitment from him, in whatever form you need it

The most important thing you should know about men in their thirties is that you should expect commitment from him, in whatever form you need it.

To gauge his level of commitment, start by asking him about family

with you.

To gauge his level of commitment, start by asking him about family

You have to stop waiting to find out if he’s wil ing to commit and ask up front: “Do you ever want to be married?” He might say he’s not ready, but you have to push for more information. Ask him when he sees himself getting married—if it’l happen in a year, two, or three.

the man you’re leaving is not the last man standing. Move on

You made a mistake with that guy, but it’s okay. Cut your losses and go find the man you deserve and who wants you back.

There’s nothing wrong with running down your credentials and then fol owing them up with some truth about what you stil desire but don’t yet have: “I’m real y happy with my station in life—I’ve accomplished a lot. But I’m looking for a man who completes me. I’ve got myself halfway to where I want to be, but I dream about having a family and a husband who wil be my partner in life.”

If you’re going to ask God for something, act like he’s going to give it to you and make ready to receive it.”

The kind of woman we wil notice and approach is a woman whose dress style is sexy/neat—which is more subtle than sexy/provocative and more engaging than just plain. A woman who looks put together and sexy—who showcases her assets without oversharing and who uses her clothes, hairstyle, and makeup to good effect—is the one who says to men, “I am beautiful, I am to be respected, and you can take me around your mother and your frat brothers without feeling uncomfortable or embarrassed.”